James
4:13-17
Come now,
you who say, “Today or
tomorrow we will go into such and such a town and spend a year there and trade
and make a profit”—14 yet you do
not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that
appears for a little time and then vanishes. 15 Instead you
ought to say, “If
the Lord wills, we will live and do this or that.” 16 As it is,
you boast in your arrogance. All such boasting is evil. 17 So whoever
knows the right thing to do and fails to do it, for him it is sin.
A
while ago I was picking up my kids from daycare. When it is warm out they play
outside on a playground and the parents pull up and park and get their
kids. You open the fence, it has a lock
thing on it, you close the fence, replace the lock, go get your kid, sign them
out, have them say goodbye to the teacher, then back through the locked fence
and replace the lock and then off you go.
Well
this one time I got there and I was walking toward the gate from my car and I
notice that the gate was left open… some
parent forgot to do their job. Then I noticed something worse, a kid had gotten
past the first line of defense and was headed for that gate. Now that is the
daycare workers job to take care of that… but no one was, this kid was headed right
out the gate and right into the parking lot filled with parents that are in a
rush and barely paying attention. The kid makes it past the gate and right to
the parking lot… what should I have done?
Seriously,
it’s not my job… why
do I need to be grabbing the kid? Plus if I do grab the kid, what if I scare
the kid…
then some creeper guy is grabbing kids near the playground
-great. The parent should've closed that gate, they should be the one going to
get this kid….
or this kids parent should be there… they
should be grabbing their own kid… right?
No,
since I see the kid and I can reach him then I need to be the one to run over
there and pick up the kid and bring him back to the playground! It’s
just that simple, it’s the right thing to do. Sometimes you look at a situation and its
just so easy to see what is the right thing to do. When those situations pop up
you need to act.
To
know what is the right thing to do and then not do it - that is sin. It’s
just like that with God… You
will see situations where you know what the right thing to do is - then its
your choice if you will obey or not.
Your friends are laughing at the wrong kind of jokes, do you laugh
along? Bullies are picking on the
special needs kid at school. do you say something? The cool kids are picking on
that girl over instagram, is there anything you can do?
I
believe that God makes the right choice very visible… its not always easy, in fact its
usually hard, but it is still up to us to make good decisions.
Questions:
1. What
is a situation that you knew instantly what was the right thing to do?
2. Talk about a situation that you
knew it was the right thing to do but then didn’t
do it. How’d that feel later?
3. Take a minute and journal about
this topic.
There was one time in middle school when a guy was fighting one of my guy friends. I immediately stepped in between them and told the guy to stop and if you want to hit my friend hit me first. Ok so it was a bit impulsive and I could've gotten hurt, but it worked. The guy never bother my friend again.
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